This passage really helped me understand my bullies, thus reminding me to never sink to their level. Oops, that was a rather dehumanizing turn of phrase, but hey I’m a work in progress. Of course, we all have to deal with these miserable people, but it’s good to be aware of what’s lying underneath their slimy reptilian scales. “We confuse belonging with fitting in, but the truth is that belonging is just in our heart, and when we belong to ourselves and believe in ourselves above all else, we belong everywhere and nowhere.”Īs for the haters, I have a new outlook on why they spew their venom in such terrible ways. I found myself nodding profusely throughout this entire chapter because it perfectly illustrates what’s driving our highly polarized society. I especially appreciated her thoughts on those who find solace in self-segregating echo chambers, where anger gets amplified and opposing voices are silenced. “When the culture of any organization mandates that it is more important to protect the reputation of a system and those in power than it is to protect the basic human dignity of the individuals who serve that system or who are served by that system, you can be certain that the shame is systemic, the money is driving ethics, and the accountability is all but dead.” THIS RIGHT HERE IS EVERYTHING! Sorry, I don’t mean to scream, but this passage is so on point with what I’m observing in the animal rescue “industry.” I’ll just leave it at that to spare you from a long soapbox tirade. But it turns out to be the place of true belonging, and it’s the bravest and most sacred place you will ever stand.”
The wilderness can often feel unholy because we can’t control it, or what people think about our choice of whether to venture into that vastness or not. It is a place as dangerous as it is breathtaking, a place as sought after as it is feared. “Belonging so fully to yourself that you’re willing to stand alone is a wilderness - an untamed, unpredictable place of solitude and searching. It’s a rather esoteric concept, but I think I get it. And when we do, we run the risk of being ostracized.
It takes a lot of practice and courage to tap into this realm of consciousness when we feel like something’s off. But to fit in, or to climb ahead while kicking down, people become disconnected from their inner core and lose touch with their purpose in life. This is the place where truth and integrity lie. For many of us, this wild, untamed forest remains unexplored and, perhaps in some cases, roped off. I don’t even know where to begin with this review because Brene Brown was dropping wisdom like bullets from a fighter jet! Perhaps I shall break it down into quotes.Įssentially, the wilderness is one’s true self. Just one chapter into it and I was completely enraptured! This book sang to my soul in so many ways and I encourage everyone to read it-even those who aren’t on the cusp of leaving civilization to live in an igloo. Louse Hay, I’m talking to you! So I was a little skeptical when a friend recommended this book to help me sort out my misanthropic views on life. Don’t even get me started on the positive psychology BS that involves “the universe” and victim-blaming psychobabble. As many of you know, self-help books are hit or miss.
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